If you feel the shift, the squeeze, the transition—you’re not alone. Change can feel disorienting, but when we walk through it with God, it becomes a holy shift rather than a breaking point.

This transition isn’t happening to you—it’s happening for you. Lean in, trust Him, and watch as He aligns everything for His glory in your family.

Disrespect is often more about our own triggers than our children’s behavior. When a child speaks up, questions authority, or expresses a boundary, we may label it as disrespectful—but is it really? Or is it simply them learning to communicate? This week, take a step back and examine why certain behaviors feel disrespectful to you. Are they truly problematic, or are they just uncomfortable because of your own past experiences? By shifting our perspective, we can raise confident, Kingdom-minded children who know how to use their voices with wisdom and respect

Devotional time doesn’t always look the way we expect. Some seasons allow for quiet mornings with coffee and Scripture, while others are filled with chaos and constant demands. But God isn’t just a first-thing-in-the-morning priority—He wants to be the center of our entire day. Whether we’re washing dishes, meeting deadlines, or caring for little ones, He is present. Release the pressure of perfection and invite Him into every moment.

Parenting can be overwhelming, especially when faced with a child’s meltdown. The key to handling these moments is staying calm—but how do we do that when emotions run high? The answer lies in bringing in God’s peace first. Instead of reacting with frustration, take a moment to pause, pray, and seek His guidance. Over time, this practice rewires our natural responses, helping us approach challenges with wisdom and love. When we lead with peace, we strengthen our connection with our children, making discipline more effective and relationships more secure.

When emotions are high, logic is low. A child in the middle of a meltdown isn’t in a place to listen or learn—they need our calm, not our chaos. Just as Jesus met the storm with peace, we can bring peace to our child’s emotional turmoil. Instead of reacting, we can stay calm, pray for wisdom, and be their safe place. Because when peace enters the storm, the storm has no choice but to settle.

Stories are a powerful way to teach life lessons, just as Jesus used them to illustrate deeper truths. Recently, a situation in our homeschool co-op sparked a discussion about character—how our consistent actions shape others' perceptions of us. My daughter observed how some students, though uninvolved, were grouped into an incident based on past behavior. This led to an important takeaway: our daily choices build trust and influence the opportunities we receive. While no one is perfect, striving for integrity allows God to use us for His kingdom. Let’s teach our children that their character truly matters.

God reminded me that my car could be more than just a vehicle; it could be a kingdom space. It’s not just a place to get from point A to point B—it’s an opportunity to create an environment where my kids experience God’s love, encouragement, and peace.

Happy New Year! As we step into 2025, many of us are setting New Year's resolutions. While I love the fresh start and the excitement of a new year, we all know how quickly resolutions can fade. The truth is, lasting change doesn’t come from just willpower—it comes from God. True transformation happens through the renewing of our minds, which only happens when we spend time with Him. If you really want to be changed this year, spend more time with God. That's the resolution that will bring lasting fruit.

As I boarded my flight, I noticed a young mother desperately trying to calm her toddler, whose cries echoed through the cabin. Her frustration spilled over in a stern warning: “If you don’t stop, I’ll beat your butt.” While her words may have shocked some, I saw a deeper story—one of exhaustion, overwhelm, and a longing for peace.

As Kingdom moms, we’re called to bring a different response, one that reflects grace and the heart of Jesus. Our presence can turn moments of chaos into opportunities for love and restoration, reminding the world that His peace is always within reach.

But as parents, it’s important to shift our perspective and recognize a profound truth: the mark of a good parent isn’t the behavior of the child—it’s the behavior of the parent.

Do you have power struggles with your kids?